What is equality?
TREAT YOURSELF
Why is it almost always men who buy and women who sell sex? Why is it most often women who are victims for sexual slavery? Is it the women’s own fault? Are women so stingy with sex that some men have to pay or force women to have sex? Do men have incredibly strong sexual urges which they cannot control? Are women obliged to satisfy such urges? Do women mean yes even if they say no?
Is it OK to buy sex? Why do men buy sex? Why do men who already have a partner buy sex from others? Is it about power? Do men feel like they do poor women a favour if they pay for using their bodies? Do some women want to sell sex? Why do so few men want to sell sex? Why do so few women want to buy sex?
What is equality?
NOT TONIGHT HONEY, I DON’T FEEL LIKE IT
Do men have stronger sexual desires than women? Or are differences individual? Can a man be uninterested of sex? Can a woman be very interested in sex?
Is it OK to demand sex if the other person doesn’t want it? Can women demand sex? Can men?
Is it the man or the woman who takes the initiative to sex? Who should be active and who should be passive?
Are women categorized as whores or madonnas = those who have or have had many men, and those who only have one? Are men categorized in the same ways? What are men called who have or have had many sex partners? Are they sluts or whores? Is “womanizer”, “Don Juan” or “player” positive or negative expressions?
What is equality?
TODAY: WAGE NEGOTIATIONS
Should salaries depend on gender? Do women have to be more “masculine” in order to earn more? Are women to blame themselves if choosing low-paid jobs? Do women have to abandon traditionally female professions in order to get higher salaries? Who should then take care of service and care for elderly, ill, and children? Would it be smarter to pay more for “female” professions? Do “male” professions have higher status than “female” ones?
What happens with salaries if women enter “male” professions? When women enter “male” professions, do they have to adjust to a “masculine” culture, or can they bring their “feminine” qualities and change the structure?
What is equality?
TELL MUMMY THAT TOMORROW SHE NEEDS TO SEND RUBBER BOOTS WITH YOU TO KINDERGARTEN!
Is it mothers or fathers who most often fill in the vacation lists and schedules at kindergarten, make sure that there are extra clothes, and that the kindergarten staff are informed of time schedules and illnesses? If staff is not informed, who is to blame?
Who does the staff approach with important information? Are fathers declared incompetent and over-looked, that is, do people think that they are unable to take responsibility for coordinating kindergarten life, work life, family life and free time?
Or are they actually incompetent? Do fathers suffer from learned helplessness? Have they never been taught to take responsibility for others? If so, how can they manage leading multinational cooperation or fill positions as heads of staff? What do you think? Join the discussion here!
What is equality?
STOP FOOLING AROUND, PELLE, YOU’RE NOT GAY, ARE YOU?
Can little boys play with dolls? Is it encouraged? Is there anyone who gives them dolls and shows them how to play with them?
Is playing with dolls a way for a boy to practice child-care in order to one day share parental responsibilities in an equal family?
Does playing with dolls make boys gay? Is it dangerous to be homosexual? Who feels threatened by it?
Can a girl play with “boys'” toys? Will that make her a lesbian? Is it more OK for a girl to play with “boys'” things than the other way around? Is the “masculine” then valued higher?
What do you think? Join the discussion here.
